If you are in charge of creating the family budget, chances are, you’ve had the unfortunate experience of having a brilliant budget plan that isn’t executed well. This happens to many families and couples, and with a little attitude tweaking, you can solicit the help of your family in making your budget work.
Create a family budget vision. Talk to your spouse and children about whatever budgetary constraints you are facing, or whatever financial goals you intend to set. By being completely honest about the bills and loans you have to pay, or your intention to save a certain amount of money for a family emergency fund (or a college fund, for that matter), you can help your family understand better your collective financial situation. This will allow them to change their perspective on purchases they make, and will help you make sure that whatever money crunching strategies you utilize won’t be counteracted by a subsequent spree by your teen.
Another good technique is to create a list of usual expenditures per member of your family. Together, identify which items you can do away with in order to save up some extra money from your monthly income. By doing this altogether, you are making your family participate better and see the contributions they can make into making your family’s finances better.
Should your child have the habit of continuously asking for money for minor and oftentimes unnecessary purchases, you can let your children learn to manage their own week’s allowance. With their limited money to budget, they will realize the value of money.
Put a cap on the amount of expenditures you make in a week. The best way to do this is set aside a fixed amount of cash that you will spend for a week. By putting this limitation on your spending, you are forced to prioritize spending on the most essential over other things.
Make it easy for your family to save more. How often do you eat out? Most family budgets are blown over because of the frequency of dining out and the accompanying exorbitant expense of that activity. Eating at home will reduce your expenses, not to mention allow for your family to bond over cooking at home. Do you spend on routine purchases like coffee and newspapers? Cut back on the latte and the paper, and put aside the amount you would otherwise spend. Your family’s collective saving will surprise you.
Lastly, don’t be afraid to create a most efficient driving route, as well as grouping together activities into one car trip. This way, you can save a lot on time and even on gasoline and car expenses.
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Do you ever notice piano players using awkward fingering when playing piano?
Believe it or not, this is a rather controversial topic.
There are people who strongly believe in proper fingering for piano pieces. There are also those who are firm believers in free-style fingering.
Let me share with you my own perspective on this topic.
Though the length of fingers differ from person to person,
we all have thumbs that are shorter than the rest of our fingers.
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Do you ever notice piano players using awkward fingering when playing piano?
Believe it or not, this is a rather controversial topic.
There are people who strongly believe in proper fingering for piano pieces. There are also those who are firm believers in free-style fingering.
Let me share with you my own perspective on this topic.
Though the length of fingers differ from person to person,
we all have thumbs that are shorter than the rest of our fingers.
As a rule (or rule of thumb), the thumb is the strongest finger
of all. Thumb, index finger (2nd), and long finger (3rd) are the most used fingers for piano playing. The fourth finger and fifth finger are weaker fingers.
Below are four fingering tips that I have worked up as general
rules:
1. Never use the thumb to play a black key. The exceptions are
a) when you are playing a piece that has all black notes.
b) when you are playing a group of keys where there are black
and white keys. For example if your right hand
is to play Bb, D, and F together in Bb major chord root position, your thumb will play Bb (black note) in this case.
Thumbs are not meant to be used for black key because of its length. The most used fingers for black notes are the 2nd and the 3rd fingers. If you are playing certain scales that start with a black key such as Bb major, Eb major, Ab major, etc. You will use 2nd or 3rd finger to play the first scale note instead of the thumb.
2. When playing melody with the right hand, if there are keys that are out of reach, you may move the hand to play the note. If the key is only a couple steps down from the thumb, you may use the thumb as an anchor and cross the second finger over to reach the note on the left side of the thumb. You do not need to move the hand. Only move the second finger over.
Once the second finger plays the key, the thumb will soon follow to cross over to play other note left of the key.
Suggestion: practice the scale well to know what finger to follow.
3. Same rule applies to left hand.
4. Watch other experienced pianists whenever possible, look at
their fingering and imitate their movements. I suggest you watch those players who are well trained classically as they have spent many years going through the structured repertoire and virtuoso training that help built a firm foundation.
One important point: The function of good fingering is to ensure smoothness of musical passages.
This is especially important in the piano work of Bach
(prelude, fugues, and others) and many Classical composers.
Very often, a slight change in piano fingering could cause a
disruption of the whole phrasing.
For improvisational and accompaniment pieces, strict piano
fingering becomes less critical. In fact, every time I improvise I use different fingering combination. This is because my mood and rhythm change when I improvise, this also affects the combination of fingers I use.
If you pay attention to musical pieces edited by different
editors, you will notice a change of fingering as well. I have noticed that the same "Sonatina" piece composed by Clementi have different fingering suggestions under different editors.
Some editors use the 2nd finger more often, while others choose
the 3rd finger.
In conclusion: if you are improvising, pay less attention to
which finger you are using. As long as you abide by the above
rules and ensure a smooth flow of musical passage, you are fine.
If you get too critical about fingering, it distracts your musical thoughts and flow. After all, it is music that you are conveying.
Piano playing gets rather complicated when you are trying to
balance both hands, keep a steady tempo (rhythm), make sure
the pedals are going in at the right time, listening to the music,.....
Have fun making music!